Last day of school & Gratitude
A friend recently gave me this knitting project bag. It's got funny things on it like:
"Mother: [noun]-One person who does the work of twenty. For free."
And
"The joys of motherhood are experienced when kids go to bed."
I'm extremely glad that I had my twins, and I love them a lot. However-- I'm also pretty sad that grade 1 is over as of lunch time today! During the summer, we have some summer camp time, and a lot of "hang out with Mommy" time. It means I have to work at night, on weekends, or whenever I can fit it in...so blog posts may be fewer, and well, I get fewer breaks to do grown-up things like work. (Maybe it's surprising, but I love working and being by myself and miss it terribly when I'm on full time mom duty.)
Yesterday was a taste of things to come. We had a day off (right before the end of school) and we got hair cuts, went to the pediatrician for a check-up, brought Sadie the dog to a play date with a trainer and picked her up again, walked to the bakery together (and boys purchased bread/treats on their own), had meals and snacks, played in our front yard wading pool... and ran one other errand. Yes, we had take-out for dinner. I could do no more!
The errand: I picked up my engagement ring and wedding ring from the jeweler's. Yesterday was our 20th wedding anniversary. In honor of this, I had my rings resized so I could wear them consistently again. Twin pregnancy and Lyme disease/post-Lyme means my knuckles swell...and getting the rings on and off had become really a trial. So, I reconfirmed things with the Professor this way. The jeweler said "Here they are again, like brand new!" But I didn't want brand new. I wanted older, a bit worn, and still fitting. Oh well. No one's fault that my knuckles got swollen. I need to be grateful for what I've got!
In order to counteract this feeling...here's a link to my latest article,which just came out today:
Do you have a gratitude list?
Labels: being a mom, grade 1, gratitude, Jewish Independent, marriage, the Professor, twins, writer's life